Risking It All

Have you or anyone you know come to that fork in the road where a major decision needs to be made? A change your life decision, a make it or break it decision, an “I’m about to Jump into the unknown that could potentially jack me up” type of decision?

I’ll admit I’ve made some bad choices for myself, MANY times that I wish I can say I learned from. The honest truth is, I’ve had to circle around the same BS way more than I expected before I got kicked in the ass enough to wake the hell up. I’m stubborn and persistent which in some cases served me well, but in those all to often circumstances It has lead me down a path of no return. Traumatized! No I’m not being dramatic, I’m just being me. My sensitive self who loves to love, loves to laugh and loves life. This is me.

I have always lived day to day. What will be will be. Never thinking about the consequences or the outcome of what could “possibly” be disastrous. I’m not sure why I’m this way, I just am. At fifty you would think I’d change my thought process a little. Think more about the future and be conservative in my spending. Yet still I dream and live life as a box of chocolates not knowing when I’ll take a bite out of gold or a bite into the blues. Either way, both are inevitable. All a matter of perspective, timing and where I am in my head.

So here I am again, about to jump, risk everything, head into the wonderful world of uncertainty.

If you ever find yourself where the road you’re on meets that fork, listen to your gut. Maybe it’s time to go for it. Whatever it is! Just maybe this is your moment to change the course of your direction.

“When it comes to the fork in the road, take it.” Yogi Berra

” Every major difficulty you face in life is a fork in the road. You choose which track you will head down, toward breakdown or breakthrough.” John C. Maxwell

Live, Love, Honor and Laugh Out Loud! Prioritize you.

About Cassandra Pavolic

As a retired performer for 25 years transitioning careers has been difficult. I truly enjoyed my career as an aerialist performer. I was fortunate enough to see the world, traveled many places and met people from all cultures. I learned a tremendous amount about life and people during my years traveling than I would in a school setting. The one thing I took away from being on the road is that no matter what ethnic background you are, we are all so similar. A smile is a smile in every language (happiness or contentment). Expressions of all emotions have the same meaning around the world. For this reason we are similar, and I somehow find that comforting. I'm now 50! It's hard to believe I'm fifty already! I reflect on my accomplishments as well as my failures up to date. Both are irrelevant to what I value most. I value people and relationships. I value my deity, it is the number one thing that keeps me stable. Being true to myself is a portion of my "food" in regards to my decision making. When I steer away from being my true self I am disappointed. Exercise, taking walks, and being still are another source of "food" in my life. I like to be still, listen and observe all things. I have been this type of person since a young child. Perhaps one of the reasons why I take an interest in Personality Psychology and my recent studies human behavior. I hold an Associates degree in Music/Theater/Dance from Dean College in MA. I quickly realized I wanted to perform, therefore my journey began immediately after graduating from Dean. I have been a Licensed Massage Therapist, as well as a Certified Personal Trainer. I am curious, I am persistent and I am passionate. I'm on a mission to be a better person, to help those who want to help themselves, and to share my thoughts, opinions, experiences to anyone who gives a damn. All in hoping that what I have to offer will change lives as you learn to keep your priorities in order. And so I started prioritize you.
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