Being lovable

Are you? Are you lovable?

I was reading one of Warren Buffett’s quotes;  “The more you give love away, The more you get”.  This one stuck out at me the most. He has a lot of great quotes! I was deeply touched when he mentioned that at a certain age you measure success by how many people you want to have love you actually do love you!

Do you ever wonder this for yourself? I think about it even in my late forties. I observe many who possess financial stability and freedom that comes with wealth…….. are they loved?  Are they lovable?  When you get to a certain age (60’s-70’s-80’s) and you have no idea who loves you “for real” and not your money, than you have bigger problems. The size of your wallet means very little when you can’t find one person that you know for certain that loves you unconditionally.

You can buy sex, but you can NOT buy love….. not true love. How do you get love? Be LOVABLE!

Kind, courteous, respectful, giving, patient, forgiving, compassionate…… need I say more?

“Anyone can come into your life and say how much they love you. It takes someone really special to stay in your life and show how much they love you.” author unknown.

Live, love, honor and laugh out loud! Prioritize you.

About Cassandra Pavolic

As a retired performer for 25 years transitioning careers has been difficult. I truly enjoyed my career as an aerialist performer. I was fortunate enough to see the world, traveled many places and met people from all cultures. I learned a tremendous amount about life and people during my years traveling than I would in a school setting. The one thing I took away from being on the road is that no matter what ethnic background you are, we are all so similar. A smile is a smile in every language (happiness or contentment). Expressions of all emotions have the same meaning around the world. For this reason we are similar, and I somehow find that comforting. I'm now 50! It's hard to believe I'm fifty already! I reflect on my accomplishments as well as my failures up to date. Both are irrelevant to what I value most. I value people and relationships. I value my deity, it is the number one thing that keeps me stable. Being true to myself is a portion of my "food" in regards to my decision making. When I steer away from being my true self I am disappointed. Exercise, taking walks, and being still are another source of "food" in my life. I like to be still, listen and observe all things. I have been this type of person since a young child. Perhaps one of the reasons why I take an interest in Personality Psychology and my recent studies human behavior. I hold an Associates degree in Music/Theater/Dance from Dean College in MA. I quickly realized I wanted to perform, therefore my journey began immediately after graduating from Dean. I have been a Licensed Massage Therapist, as well as a Certified Personal Trainer. I am curious, I am persistent and I am passionate. I'm on a mission to be a better person, to help those who want to help themselves, and to share my thoughts, opinions, experiences to anyone who gives a damn. All in hoping that what I have to offer will change lives as you learn to keep your priorities in order. And so I started prioritize you.
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