He said She said!

Gossip! A funny thing… until somebody gets pissed on, right?

What, where, who and how the hell did this get misconstrued?!? Have you ever found yourself in the middle of somebody’s gossip train? You become aware (eventually) that you’re the scapegoat for somebody’s drama? This reminds me of the school game we played in Elementary with our friends called “Telephone”.  Here’s an idea of what I’m talking about:

Person A–   Hello, I’m going to town to pick up Donny. We’re going to Billy’s house to chill and listen to music.

Person B–  Hey, going to Dave’s house to pick up Donnie, then we’re going to Betty’s to make Chilly and listen to music with Betty’s brother Ken.

Person C–  What’s up! We’re going to meet Betty, Billy and Dave at the clubhouse in Donnie’s neighborhood. They have a band that plays “chill” music. Maybe you can bring some drinks and snacks while we hang out.

Back to person A–  What? First, you’re definitively way off with my original message and second…. who the hell is Dave?

You see what I’m saying here? Unfortunately I have learned that as we “grow up” none of this really ever changes! People still love to talk, gossip, or start rumors. Another part of life is that…. IT IS WHAT IT IS and it’s not going away.

Maybe that’s what I got out of my school years. It prepares you for the real world of; clicks, gossipers and haters. LOL

And sometimes it’s not all a bad thing! If you find yourself in a situation where you’re in the middle of bullshit….my advice is go with it, eventually the truth will catch on (hopefully for you that’s not a bad thing).

Live, love, honor and laugh out loud! Prioritize you.



About Cassandra Pavolic

As a retired performer for 25 years transitioning careers has been difficult. I truly enjoyed my career as an aerialist performer. I was fortunate enough to see the world, traveled many places and met people from all cultures. I learned a tremendous amount about life and people during my years traveling than I would in a school setting. The one thing I took away from being on the road is that no matter what ethnic background you are, we are all so similar. A smile is a smile in every language (happiness or contentment). Expressions of all emotions have the same meaning around the world. For this reason we are similar, and I somehow find that comforting. I'm now 50! It's hard to believe I'm fifty already! I reflect on my accomplishments as well as my failures up to date. Both are irrelevant to what I value most. I value people and relationships. I value my deity, it is the number one thing that keeps me stable. Being true to myself is a portion of my "food" in regards to my decision making. When I steer away from being my true self I am disappointed. Exercise, taking walks, and being still are another source of "food" in my life. I like to be still, listen and observe all things. I have been this type of person since a young child. Perhaps one of the reasons why I take an interest in Personality Psychology and my recent studies human behavior. I hold an Associates degree in Music/Theater/Dance from Dean College in MA. I quickly realized I wanted to perform, therefore my journey began immediately after graduating from Dean. I have been a Licensed Massage Therapist, as well as a Certified Personal Trainer. I am curious, I am persistent and I am passionate. I'm on a mission to be a better person, to help those who want to help themselves, and to share my thoughts, opinions, experiences to anyone who gives a damn. All in hoping that what I have to offer will change lives as you learn to keep your priorities in order. And so I started prioritize you.
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