Just walk away

Sometimes you have to know when to “just walk away” from any situation that may be compromising to your well being. I’m not talking about walking away from being a Parent when you feel your children are a threat to your happiness. God knows every parent has those moments of insanity when kids are on your last nerves. And by the way, that’s generally an indication that you need a break! I’m simply speaking about those moments when it’s absolutely time to move on. This can be with family, a friend, a coworker, a boss, a relationship or an old habit that no longer needs to be a part of your personality. Whatever it may be, think about it. Ask yourself why you must walk away and if it’s beneficial to do so. Have you tried with all your heart to solve any issues that you may have with  someone or situation, that you now need to just walk away from? What will the outcome of this action be? Positive or Negative? Is it worth the risk?  Again, if your in a situation that is compromising your health, mental/physical, then get to stepping! Don’t think twice about it. You don’t need to carry this burden, or a problem that another person has and suddenly became yours, any longer then you already have. Remember, if the issue your having involves someone else, you can’t help someone unless they WANT to help themselves. Give up terrorizing yourself and be 100% certain that your doing what’s right for you. Sometimes it can be the hardest decision you’ll ever make, but necessary for your emotional well being. You will only look back and say, “I gave it my all, I believe I did my best in the situation that I was dealing with and I’m glad I made the choice to just walk away”. This choice may make you a stronger person who now understands the importance of valuing your soul.  

About Cassandra Pavolic

As a retired performer for 25 years transitioning careers has been difficult. I truly enjoyed my career as an aerialist performer. I was fortunate enough to see the world, traveled many places and met people from all cultures. I learned a tremendous amount about life and people during my years traveling than I would in a school setting. The one thing I took away from being on the road is that no matter what ethnic background you are, we are all so similar. A smile is a smile in every language (happiness or contentment). Expressions of all emotions have the same meaning around the world. For this reason we are similar, and I somehow find that comforting. I'm now 50! It's hard to believe I'm fifty already! I reflect on my accomplishments as well as my failures up to date. Both are irrelevant to what I value most. I value people and relationships. I value my deity, it is the number one thing that keeps me stable. Being true to myself is a portion of my "food" in regards to my decision making. When I steer away from being my true self I am disappointed. Exercise, taking walks, and being still are another source of "food" in my life. I like to be still, listen and observe all things. I have been this type of person since a young child. Perhaps one of the reasons why I take an interest in Personality Psychology and my recent studies human behavior. I hold an Associates degree in Music/Theater/Dance from Dean College in MA. I quickly realized I wanted to perform, therefore my journey began immediately after graduating from Dean. I have been a Licensed Massage Therapist, as well as a Certified Personal Trainer. I am curious, I am persistent and I am passionate. I'm on a mission to be a better person, to help those who want to help themselves, and to share my thoughts, opinions, experiences to anyone who gives a damn. All in hoping that what I have to offer will change lives as you learn to keep your priorities in order. And so I started prioritize you.
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