Desiring More VS True Values

If your desire for “more” depletes what you value most, then perhaps it’s time to take an honest look at what your “true” values are. This can be complicating to those people who are in survival mode, caught up in the craziness of our worlds definition of success, or the lack of understanding what may lay within the heart is simply selfishness. It’s possible to desire more without neglecting or honoring your true values but not without caution. Keeping an eye on the goal without compromising your character or core values will lead you straight into success, even if it means you must give up something to stay true to who you are during this process. Don’t loose your integrity while on your journey. Keep things in the proper perspective and trust that you will come out on top. Take time to reflect, plan, and pursue. In doing this, you’re keeping your priorities in order by prioritizing you. Life may throw us an occasional curve ball, we just need to know how to dodge, bob and weave. It’s that simple.

About Cassandra Pavolic

As a retired performer for 25 years transitioning careers has been difficult. I truly enjoyed my career as an aerialist performer. I was fortunate enough to see the world, traveled many places and met people from all cultures. I learned a tremendous amount about life and people during my years traveling than I would in a school setting. The one thing I took away from being on the road is that no matter what ethnic background you are, we are all so similar. A smile is a smile in every language (happiness or contentment). Expressions of all emotions have the same meaning around the world. For this reason we are similar, and I somehow find that comforting. I'm now 50! It's hard to believe I'm fifty already! I reflect on my accomplishments as well as my failures up to date. Both are irrelevant to what I value most. I value people and relationships. I value my deity, it is the number one thing that keeps me stable. Being true to myself is a portion of my "food" in regards to my decision making. When I steer away from being my true self I am disappointed. Exercise, taking walks, and being still are another source of "food" in my life. I like to be still, listen and observe all things. I have been this type of person since a young child. Perhaps one of the reasons why I take an interest in Personality Psychology and my recent studies human behavior. I hold an Associates degree in Music/Theater/Dance from Dean College in MA. I quickly realized I wanted to perform, therefore my journey began immediately after graduating from Dean. I have been a Licensed Massage Therapist, as well as a Certified Personal Trainer. I am curious, I am persistent and I am passionate. I'm on a mission to be a better person, to help those who want to help themselves, and to share my thoughts, opinions, experiences to anyone who gives a damn. All in hoping that what I have to offer will change lives as you learn to keep your priorities in order. And so I started prioritize you.
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